| I told you we are in the midst of the 7th War Loan Drive.
I thought today a very good day on which to buy that extra war bond--I purchased
one of the $50 denomination. Amid the welter of war and victory and memory, we have a
rather touching event taking place in Milwaukee at this time. A little more than a
week ago a mallard duck began to lay eggs in a hollow of one of the piles of the Wisconsin
Avenue bridge near the Gimbel boardwalk. In all of the noise of traffic a mother
begins to prepare for her annual "blessed event". She has been christened
"Gert" by someone (probably a newspaper man) and the name has stuck. Each
night and each morning there appears a story about her in the papers. She laid a
total of 9 eggs and is now incubating them. The bridge tenders have wired a floating
raft to the piling and keep it supplied with grain to feed her. She comes down once
or twice a day to eat, but the rest of the time she sits on her little nest, oblivious to
the crowds that watch her continuously. The city had let a contract for the renewal
of the pilings of this bridge, but has now informed the contractor that the job must wait
until Gert has hatched her brood! D. says amid the miseries of our world, this
little event does something toward restoring one's faith in humanity. She has
something there, hasn't she?
Today I got off my letter to the trial address you asked me to use on one letter just
to see how long it would take to reach you. Let me know, won't you? Using the
number of the letter if you can so that I can check to see how long it took. (I mail
my letters to you the day after they are written--for they are usually written after the
last mail collection)
Your # 299 came to me today with its interesting analysis of the position of women in
Phillipine [sic] society. That is, the very unfair and rigidly enforced single
standard by which men may have mistresses but a woman may not even be compromised by
circumstance and not fact, and thus become a pariah. It is almost difficult to
believe, for one brought up under the free and easy American scheme of things which
demands as much fidelity from the husband as from the wife. And after all, as you
said, our system is the real Catholic Church system--fidelity is not a feminine matter
alone. Isn't it odd that the single standard system was actually most rigidly
enforced in countries that supposedly were entirely Catholic countries?
I note you say (in answer to a foolish statement that I had made) that you consider me
100% loyal as a wife but that "My criticism lay in your interpretation of the
term". By which I take it you mean my penchant for wanting to do everything
myself when you would prefer me to let the doing to you. As I said in another letter
recently on the same subject, I am attempting to wean myself of such bossy ways. I
am rather a curiosity in that way myself, for honestly inside myself I want to be a
clinging vine. But habit is a strange thing--it is much harder to break than to
acquire. Which does not alter my determination to break myself of that one.
Thank you for the information on the battle stars. I hadn't counted Guadalcanal
in my considerations at all, had I? May I ask another question? Is it a fact
that there is such a thing as a Phillipine [sic] Liberation ribbon--given in addition to
the star on the Asiatic theatre ribbon? Mary Bowen said there was, but it is
possible she is mistaken. I shall have to write her a not about the campaign stars
for I know she will appreciate having that information, as will the rest of Ken's family.
On this solemn day of thanksgiving I ask God to bless you and keep you. For I
love you more than you will ever know.
Priscilla
P.S. I thought you might like to know that Hep has given me hell all day!
P.

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