Talk with Your Student

Here are some topics for families and parents to discuss with your student to help guide them through the college journey.

September 2019

A time of transition – for the student and parent 

During the first year, and throughout college, students will move between being out in a world that’s exciting and needing to know their parents and families will always support them. Some students will thrive immediately; others will need more time to get comfortable. No matter the pace, the next four years are an important transition to independent adulthood. 

It’s also an important milestone for parents and families, transitioning from provider and protector to mentor and confidant. 

Stay in touch – visit during Family Weekend! 

Marquette encourages families to stay in touch with their students and send care packages to celebrate their successes while also encouraging them to take advantage of university resources when they are struggling. 

First-year students living on campus are encouraged to stay at Marquette on weekends during the first semester as much as possible. It is a crucial time to make new friends, adjust to new academic expectations and get involved outside the classroom.  

Family Weekend is September 27-29, 2019!  Visit the website to learn more about the events offered on or off campus. Also, consider just joining your student for a tour of campus or a dinner downtown. 

Living arrangements 

All first-year students living in a residence hall are asked to complete a roommate agreement, including how roommates will navigate different expectations and living styles. Most new students find their living arrangements work if they are open-minded and communicate with one another.  

Current sophomores and upperclassmen may start talking about plans for living in rental houses and apartments. There is no need to rush on housing decisions for 2020-2021, as there is plenty of housing available in the area. Nearby landlords will lease throughout the year for the following fall. The University Apartments (Campus Town, Gilman, Frenn, McCabe, and The Marq) will begin their selection process in October, with building tours and information sessions. Eligible students currently in on-campus housing will received specific emails about the process. More details can be viewed at

Tuition and bills 

Students receive notices about tuition to their Marquette email accounts. If parents want to receive these notices, they must have their student register a parent’s email for guest access through their CheckMarq account. This also provides access to bursar accounts, e-bills and 1098Ts. 


October 2019

Midterm break 

The October 17 to 20 midterm break provides an opportunity to reconnect with your student. Some students experience homesickness, and it is normal for students to miss their families and friends back home. But if a student’s homesickness is interfering with daily life, encourage him or her to seek support by talking to a resident assistant, visiting Campus Ministry and/or stopping by the Counseling Center. 


Spring course registration and advising 

Registration for spring classes for first-year students takes place in mid-November. Students are required to meet with their academic advisers once a semester before registration beings. 

To prepare for their advising meeting, students can use Academic Advisement, an online resource to help them understand which requirements have been met and which ae outstanding. Doing so will increase the amount of time available to discuss topics such as studying abroad, internships and career choices.   


Accelerated Degree Programs 

Students can complete a master’s degree in only one additional year through Marquette’s accelerated degree programs. Students take graduate-level courses during their senior year that count towards both their bachelor’s and master’s degree. Learn more online. 


Open House 
The Graduate School and the Graduate School of Management will host an Open House on Thursday, Nov. 7, from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. in the Alumni Memorial Union. This event is open to anyone interested in pursuing a graduate degree. Attendees will meet directors of graduate studies, faculty, graduate school staff and current students in a casual, conversational format. RSVP online. 


University Apartments 

Marquette University Apartments offer studio, one, two, and three bedroom options in safe and convenient living communities on or close to campus. Sophomores and juniors thinking about signing leases for the 2020-2021 academic year can place deposits for university-owned apartments in October. First-year students, who are required to live in on-campus residences as sophomores, submit housing deposits in March. 


Promoting Academic Success 

Benedict Kemp, PhD 
Associate Director, Retention 

Office of Student Educational Services 

Students often start the semester with high expectations. Many students will struggle to meet those goals, but that is a good thing! This struggling to achieve academic goals results in the development of new skills and understandingsHowever, by this time of the semester, many students lose motivation or perspective on how learning can be hard work. Keep encouraging your student! The academic struggle is real, and it will help your student to hear that you understand that their academic growth can be a struggle.  


The other big academic event on the October calendar is midterms. Many courses have exams sometime during October 10-16th. It is important to remember that one of the things an exam assesses is how well students prepared for the exam. It isn’t just a matter of hard work; it is also about the effectiveness of studying. If your student needs help to study more effectively, encourage them to schedule an appointment with an academic coach in Student Educational Services (125 Coughlin Hall). 


Finally, I suggest you read the Guiding Values of Marquette University (link “Mission of Marquette University to this- The first item listed under Marquette University Guiding Values states the University’s pledge to make the “personal and holistic development of students as our primary institutional vocation.” Your student will grow and change as a result of their Marquette education. As I stated above, that requires hard work and is often scary. One of the ways it can be scary is that intellectual growth leads to new interests and passions as a student’s understanding of the world matures. Encourage your student to explore their interests. Parental support will help normalize the scary work that they are doing to become the difference.


November 2019

Registration appointment time 

In mid-November, after advising, students register for classes. Registration appointments for undergraduate students are assigned by total number of credits. This process allows students who are closest to completing their degree – and have less opportunity to take certain classes – to have earlier appointments. Marquette Central has a wonderful resource for students on the How Do I…? website.


Staying healthy 

As cold and flu season beings, students may get sick for the first time away from home. The Marquette University Medical Clinic offers a wide range of resources to care for sick students, including flu shots for a nominal fee. Students who have not received a flu shot should be encouraged to do so this month.  

Also, the Marquette University Medical Clinic wants to make sure students are aware of CDC Update on Lung Injury Associated with E-cigarette Use or Vaping.  Please take some time to review the update and discuss with your student.


Encourage balance 

This is a great time to encourage your student to maintain a balanced life – fitting in exercise and a healthy diet with academics and a social life. This is equally important for a student who is worried about grades or one spending too little time in the library. Students have free access to the Rec Center and Rec Plex on campus.